To push a database from your local DDEV environment to Upsun, be very careful and very sure that this is necessary. This should only be done in a dire circumstance.
Do a safety export of the live database:
upsun db:dump -e main > dump.sql
Then push your local database to the Stage environment on the Upsun site:
ddev push upsun --skip-files
Check the Stage site to ensure nothing broke, then push to Main:
ddev push upsun --skip-files --environment="PLATFORM_ENVIRONMENT=main"